Shonda Rhimes is an influential storyteller in modern television. As the creator of Grey's Anatomy, Scandal, Bridgerton, and more, she's known for crafting complex, diverse characters and emotionally rich narratives. Several years ago I read her memoir Year of Yes. In this book she shares how learning to say "yes" transformed her life from fear and burnout to joy and authenticity.
Saying no has gotten me here. Here sucks. Saying yes might be my way to someplace better. If not a way to someplace better, at least to someplace different. —Shonda Rhimes
Saying yes doesn't guarantee ease or clarity. But it opens the door to transformation. It's brave, uncertain, and soul-stretching. And it's exactly what we see in Panagia.
Trusting God in the Unknown
When the Archangel Gabriel came to her, she wasn't handed a roadmap. No detailed instructions. No guarantees. Just a choice. And she said yes! Her yes wasn't just about bearing Christ. It was about bearing the unknown, the joy, and heartbreak. It was about trusting God's plan even when it led to challenges—from giving birth in a manger and a flight to Egypt, to the Cross. Her yes was not passive. Her yes was fierce, faithful, and full of compassion.
Last week, we celebrated our beloved Mother on the Feast of the Dormition. Her story speaks to anyone who's been asked to say yes to something hard. I think of the caregiver who shows up daily, often unseen but utterly essential. I think of the artist who creates beauty in the midst of doubt. I think of the worker who labors quietly for the sake of love. And I think of the soul who chooses healing, even when it hurts.
With Love in Christ,
Maria
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