NEW TO ORTHODOXY

Standing and Sitting

Orthodox worship is often done standing, as this was the ancient practice of the Church. However, we understand this might be new or challenging for some. Orthodox Christians stand for most of the Divine Liturgy, and out of reverence rise when the Gospel is read and when the Holy Gifts are present. 

If you need to sit, please do. What matters most is that you're able to participate in worship, not whether you're standing or sitting. You'll notice people moving between standing and sitting throughout the service—this is normal.

Children

Orthodox families worship together. Children of all ages worship alongside us, participating as they're able. We do our best to keep worship reverent, but the normal sounds and movements of children are expected and welcomed as part of our community's prayer. Orthodox-themed coloring pages, children's books, and other resources are available. Any usher or greeter can help you find them.

If your child is having an especially hard time, feel free to step into the Narthex (church entrance area) or Fellowship Hall for a break. Our community understands and supports parents. Please don't feel embarrassed, and let us know if there's anything we can do to make worship easier for your family.

Service Books and Following Along

Orthodox worship can seem complex, with its various movements, hymns, and actions. Service books are available under the seat in front of you, and any parishioner will be happy to help you find your place. But please don't feel pressured to keep up with everything. Most of us learned the service gradually; not knowing what's happening is very normal for your first several visits.

Crossing Yourself

You'll notice people making the sign of the cross at various times during the service. Orthodox Christians cross themselves up to down, then right to left, but you'll see variation in how often people do this. As a visitor, there's no expectation for you to cross yourself. Join in if you like, or feel free to simply stand quietly and observe if that is more comfortable for you.

Icons and Veneration

You'll see Orthodox Christians bowing before and kissing the icons (holy images) in the church. There's no expectation that visitors do the same, but you're welcome to participate to whatever degree you're comfortable. For more on the role of icons in Orthodox worship, see Worship Elements.

Receiving Holy Communion

The reception of Holy Communion is reserved for Orthodox Christians who have prepared through prayer and fasting. At the end of the service, however, everyone is invited to receive blessed bread (antidoron) from the priest.

Receiving a Blessing

You may see parishioners approach the priest at the end of the service to receive a blessing. The priest extends his right hand; the parishioner kisses it. If you'd like to receive a blessing during your visit, you're welcome to approach Fr. Tom after the service. You don't need to be Orthodox.